Thursday, March 27, 2014

ROGER

My friend, Roger Kaminsky died today.

He was the first vivid person I got to know in my activities as a volunteer in the Lacoochee community. More than seven years ago, a bunch of us got together on a regular basis at the school to think about community/school, and what we could do to resurrect this impoverished community. Roger was always there, always helpful and insightful. Over time, we forged a plan of action, and Roger was instrumental in leading the community through many difficult twists and turns. Now we have a magnificent community center.

Roger was always strong, always efficient. He took his turn at being the chairman when the group became the official Lacoochee- Trilby-Trilacoochee steering committee. His strong start made everything after happen. When the chairmanship passed to the next person, Roger quietly became the secretary and never missed a meeting of taking the minutes on his computer.

Despite the wild hair and worn face, Roger seemed young and fit. He and his wife, Marion ran the Christian Edge center, a coffee house and hub for after school activities. Roger taught many young folks the guitar. There was lots of music there in this place the Kaminskys created. There was art and dance and love and fellowship. He lived his beliefs.

I don't know that Roger was a pastor; occasionally he would offer a brief prayer at meetings. It was clear, though, that his Christian faith was strong. What he did was live the Christian ethic of service and inclusivity.

This was a gentle man who cared deeply about our community. His life has made a tremendous difference for the better. All of us- Dave, our officer Friendly, Tammy, Shara, Jack Futch, Karen, Richard and Kathy, Cassie, David Lambert, Michelles, and so many others have heavy hearts tonight. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Marion.

I am imagining a tribute to Roger that would be a grove of trees and a concrete bench on the grounds of the new community center.

2 comments:

  1. Roger will be forever missed..He was a very kind man and was an asset to our community.My heart aches for Marion as she goes through this journey,she is not alone and our community will be there for her as her and Roger was there for us all.God bless.We all Love you Marion <3

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  2. Anonymous5:13 AM

    It is so sorry when we lost close people and nothing help to understand why our life passes so quickly . And why we lost the best of us.
    I love your very nice and wise blog.
    Wish you and your family a lot of luck and good health,
    Marta

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